Menang pingat Gangsa lebih rasa gembira dari menang Perak sebab..

 Dah lama tak tulis ni.. Baru-baru ni terjumpa status penulisan di laman Facebook yang aku dapat mempunyai mesej nasihat. Tak nak hilang, maka aku salin tampal di sini agar mudah cari balik..

--- salin tampal dari siaran bergambar Wan Nur Shuhaida <-- klik nama ini untuk lihat siaran sebenar oleh empunya ---

Have you noticed that a *Bronze* medalist is generally *more happy* than a *Silver medalist* at the end of the game.
It’s not an incidental finding but a proven fact in many research studies after studying reactions of silver medalists vs bronze medalists!
Ideally, a silver medalist should be more happy than the bronze. But, the human mind doesn't work like mathematics.
This happens because of a phenomenon called the *counterfactual thinking*.
The silver medalist thinks, "Oh I couldn't win the gold medal." The bronze medalist thinks, "At least I got a medal."
A silver medal is won after losing, but a bronze medal is won after winning.
This happens even in our life, we don't appreciate what we have but feel sad with what we don't have. Let's be grateful for our blessings, they far outweigh our problems if we start counting.
Life is after all full of choices, do always count your blessings to stay positive & motivated.

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Sesuatu yang membuka minda aku juga. Patutlah ada orang dapat tempat kedua pun boleh jadi stres.  terutamanya melibatkan persaingan berdua. Kalau acara ramai orang (lumba lari maraton ke), rasa gembira menang tempat kedua itu dicapai selepas berjaya memintas yang nombor 3 tu ok lagi kot..

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